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Today, 09:19 AM
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| Member ?Join Date: Nov 2012 Posts: 131 | I agree with everyone above. This marriage is not looking good at all. I am so sorry that you are going through this. The shock must be unspeakable. No matter what your husband says when you eventually do confront him, you know the truth. If he's so quick to cheat or look after 2 years, surely he'd have no qualms after 5,10,20 years. You should still be in your honeymoon phase. In this thread and others, I wonder why it's so important to install tracking devices in cars, computers, phones, etc. If you know the truth, why do you need to prove to the cheater that he did, in fact, cheat? |
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Today, 10:59 AM
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| Member ?Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Alberta Posts: 3,698 | I've been through what you're going through, except when I found the chat and the Adult Friend Finder and Sexsearch profiles, I also found out that he had paid money to an escort service twice. I agree that you need to gather evidence. A keylogger would be ideal. That will tell you the extent of what he's doing. With what you have right now, he will deny deny deny, and you will believe him, and you will let it go, and he will continue doing it. And yes, figure out what you want. I kicked my husband out the day I found out. We were separated for 5 months. Have no doubt, he IS cheating on you. |
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Today, 02:15 PM
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| Member ?Join Date: Aug 2010 Posts: 1,051 | Quote:
A common tactic used by cheaters is called "gaslighting". This is when they say things like, "oh yeah, we're just friends" or "I wasn't ever at that hotel, I was watching Timmy's soccer game". With facts gained from trackers or keyloggers or whatever, the betrayed spouse can stand firm about what's going on instead of wavering if he comes back and says something like "I was only checking out the profile of my friend at work so I could give her advice about it....that's why I had to contact her on IM". If in this instance you have black and white proof of who he was looking at and how many times and what the emails and chats were about, then you know he's either just a super nice dating guru for all the single girls around him, or that he's a big fat cheater and can respond accordingly. | |
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